Aug 20, 2010

pillow fights,fight over lemon juices...are all anecdotes



She is now married. A new girl in a completely new look and family. Each word of her measured. A phone call, or an e mail. That's all for the time being. Performing pretty well. Her husband seems to be the only source of happiness in the new place(not literally), as all others are too good, and too new to be free with, right now. Days will pass and these unknown people will be her part...completely. She will get a very little chance to have a pillow fight or will rarely fight over the lemon juice coming out of the salad. There she is with a new perspective of life and trying to make everything perfect. Still when we get time, we fight over various issues. But pillow fights and stuffs...that does not go well with her image-NOW. Sari, bangles, sindur, and a permanent smile on her face is all that we wished for and that's all we are getting. The careless look has changed in a matter of hours. But she is still sensitive, emotional, scared as before. May be more. She can not afford to be scared of ghosts at night any more. Because she is scared..."What if my in laws find it funny???" The gentle, caring and supportive nature of her husband is making her fear free everyday. She is understanding that she is becoming the girl of the new family and not the daughter in law.She's happy. We are happy too. We are happy to see her with a great husband, from a very good family. A husband we can count on and a family who,we know,will give her enough love that any girl can ask for. Mrs. my didi. We love you a lot. And we love to see you happy. With such a great husband by your side, you can not fear anything, anybody, anywhere. Love yourself and love your surroundings to get the love you want.....Baba, i know you will keep an eye on her-always. Take care- both of you.

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